“Private Victory precedes Public Victory. Algebra comes before calculus.” – Stephen Covey
At last. It’s here. It’s my Personal Effectiveness Toolbox:
It’s the real deal. This is my hand-picked collection of principles, patterns, practices, and tools to help you make the most of what you’ve got.
My Personal Effectiveness Toolbox is a roundup of the best-of-the-best resources that help you in key areas of your life, including the following Hot Spots:
Get Your Edge in Work and Life (Your Unfair Advantage)
If you want to get an edge in work and life, Personal Effectiveness Toolbox will help you do exactly that. I mentor a lot of people inside and outside of Microsoft, so I am always looking for the best resources and tools that actually work. I’ve personally spent many, many thousands of dollars on programs and tested them in the real-world against extreme challenges.
I wasted a lot of money.
But I also found a lot of incredible and amazing products that actually worked. I found people and products and tools that provide real insight and led to real breakthroughs.
The Best Personal Effectiveness Resources in the World
My Personal Effectiveness Toolbox is the ultimate collection of programs, tools, and books that help you succeed in all areas of your life. I’ve organized the resources into the following categories:
Achievement Systems, Beliefs / Limits / Mindsets, Blogging, Body / Fitness / Health, Book Writing, Business / Startups / Passive Income, Career, Confidence, Creativity, Finance, Goals, Emotional Intelligence, Interpersonal Skills, Leadership, Mind / Intellectual Horsepower, Motivation, Personal Development, Productivity, Relationships.
I’ve also tried to address some common scenarios and issues.
Build Passive Income Skills for a Mobile-First, Cloud-First World
One scenario I see a lot is people are looking to achieve financial freedom. They either want to have a backup for their day job, or perhaps pursuit other opportunities on their own terms. Or they want to simply try their hand at generating passive income. The beauty is that in today’s world, you can combine your purpose, passion, and profit, and sell what you know to the world.
But the challenge is it can be a confusing path, and there is a lot to learn. I want through a lot of books, courses, and programs that were a big let down. But, along the way, I did find some resources that really did help. For example, I regularly recommend SBI! (Site Build It) to friends and family as a way to get started. I also recommend Teleseminar Mastery Course as an effective way to create an online course on your favorite subject and get paid for doing what you love. To give them a handle on how to think about passive income, financial freedom, and building businesses in today’s mobile-first, cloud-first world, I have them start with Six-Figure Second Income. It’s one of the best books I’ve read that puts it all together and really explains things in plain English, and puts things like digital information products and a digital economy in perspective.
Improve Your Personal Effectiveness with a Personal Achievement System
Another scenario I see is that too many people struggles with goals, motivation, and productivity. While you can attack these individually, I’m a fan of building a strong foundation by putting a personal achievement system in place. If you have an achievement system you can count on, you amplify your chance for success. It also helps you with continuous learning. And a good personal achievement system helps you get much better over time.
While there are a lot of systems out there, if I had to pick the best starting point, I would say it’s Tony Robbins’ Personal Power II. It’s the most hard-core personal development program and personal excellence program I know. You’ll learn more about your body, brains, and emotions than a lifetime of reading. You’ll learn how to rapidly model success, and accelerate your learning curve. It’s the same program I used to go from nearly last in a class of 197 students, to #3. I still can’t believe it. Just about every day I recall some aspect of Personal Power II, and apply it in some shape or form. It’s one of Tony’s greatest gifts to the world, ever.
Note that just because I’m talking about Tony Robbins particular program doesn’t mean I limited myself to his programs. In fact, I also included a reference to Brian Tracy’s Success Master Academy. It’s also one of the best programs available that really gives you a well-rounded foundation for achieving your dreams.
Master Emotional Intelligence
Emotional Intelligence is often the difference that makes the difference in work and life. While Emotional Intelligence won’t guarantee your success, the absence of it can almost guarantee you will struggle. You will have a disadvantage compared to those with EQ. But the very good news is that Emotional Intelligence is a skill you can learn. You can practice it every day. And you can learn it on your own. The place to start is Daniel Goleman’s classic book, Emotional Intelligence.
If you are wondering what Stephen Covey meant when he wanted us to increase the gap between stimulus and response, and to respond to our challenges vs. react, that’s exactly where Emotional Intelligence comes in.
Achieve Your Goals
Believe it or not, goals are your friend. If your goals aren’t working for you, the problem is you have “impotent goals”, as Tony Robbins would say. Or, perhaps, maybe Zig Ziglar said it best when he said, "People do not wander around and then find themselves at the top of Mount Everest."
Goals help you prioritize, focus, and know when you are done. They help you make trade-offs in how much time to spend on something, or even when to spend time on something. They also help you establish markers along the way so you can feel a sense of progress and they help you with your motivation.
But all of the goodness of goals depends on knowing how to really set them and achieve them with skill. The good news is, goals have been around a very long time, way longer than you or me. And many people before us have learned how to really use goals to their advantage.
And the beauty is nothing stops us from using all those lessons learned from goal setting. The art and science of effective goal setting is well-known and well published. You just need to know where to look. While I have gone through many, many goal setting courses and exercises, I would say that one of the best, most thorough programs that really gives you a rock-solid foundation is Brian Tracy’s Goal Mastery for Personal and Financial Achievement. It is an advanced system that not only covers the basics, it dives deep into how to really create compelling goals and make them happen.
Write Your Book
One goal a lot of people have is to write a book. In fact, many people I know want to write their first book. I’ve included a link to Brian Tracy’s 20-Step Author Quick Start Guide, which is one of the most thorough guides that walks you through the process of writing and publishing your book. Brian Tracy is a world-renowned author and is one of the best to learn from.
You can write your book to share your experience. You can also use books as a way to help your career or to establish your expertise. You can also use your book as a way to help build your financial fitness. And you can use your book writing process as a way to dive much deeper into a topic you love.
Call to Action
I could go on, but at this point, I’m just going to ask you to do three things:
- Bookmark my Personal Effectiveness Toolbox. It will serve you for years to come (and I will continue to update it.)
- Review the programs and tools and test which ones you think will help you the most.
- Last, but not least (and perhaps most important), share the Personal Effectiveness Toolbox with 10 of your friends. Karma just might surprise you with a big fat kiss. But all Karma aside, you can really help your friends and family the same way I do with some of the best tools in the world.
Here’s to getting everything you want, and then some, as well as helping more people achieve their dreams.