It’s amazing how much the metaphors we use can be enabling or disabling. For example, I used to think “in life there are no second chances” or “you never get a second chance at first impressions.” Once I adopted, “life’s an experiment”, it was much more enabling. It means, changing from getting everything right up front to boxing my risks, trying more, and learning and adapting as I go.
My manager is very much into experiments around impact and improvement. He’s got a research background, but he’s into applied research. That works great for me because I’m a fan of learning what works over theorizing endless possibilities.
For me, the keys to metaphors are knowing which ones I use, and which ones are limiting. I always need to ask, what’s the most enabling metaphor for the situation I’m in. What will make me more resourceful? For example, in a group like patterns & practices, experimenting and continuous improvement come with the job.
I’ll have more to say on metaphors another day, but in the meantime, I’ll leave you with this … do you know your 3 most enabling metaphors? … do you know your 3 most limiting? (hint – limits and opportunities are in the eye of the beholder … whether you think you can or can’t, you’re right)